How We Organize Time: Some Generalizations

People tend to organize their time in one of two ways: Some people see their time as passing through their body.  Their future tends to be in front of them and their past seems to be behind them.  Their time line tends to run through their body.  This is how I...

Conviction

I just ran accross a link that talks about conviction and our voice tonality and how it affects our presentation.  This is worth watching.  Notice how the way he says something affects the impact of what he says. Conviction Link

Why Do We Eat Cheesecake at Ten PM?

It’s ten o’clock at night.  I am standing in my bathrobe and soft slippers holding the fridge door open, staring into the yellowish light, meditating to the rhythmic hum of the cooling system.  The inner debate begins, “Why am I here?  I am not hungry, but I...

Explaining a Client-Centered Approach

I have a good friend that is a contractor.  One of his mantras is this: make sure you have the right tool for the job.  He says that having the right tool will save you time, money and frustration.  I feel the same way. I approach each client understanding that he or...

Taking Responsibility: Living at Cause

“Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space lies our freedom and power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and freedom” (Victor Frankl). When I was teenager, I remember telling my father that a friend of mine had offended me. I...